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Wisest Elder Ever
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: cajun country, lafayette Louisiana
Posts: 24,238
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Wisest Elder Ever
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: cajun country, lafayette Louisiana
Posts: 24,238
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well since you asked....
My counselor wouldn't see jeff and I for couples counseling due to me having an established relationship already with her...
The counselor we saw together neither one of us knew her before so we were on pretty much even ground.
Perhaps your hubby could see her by himself....Do you really think he is going to understand your problems better if she is there telling him?
Or will you be telling him again how hard it is for you with her being there to validate your feelings.
Do you think he doesn't believe you?
That is putting alot of importance on what she says
compared to what you say.
Maybe you guys need a couples counselor....
I don't know...
What does your hubby say?
I think it is a great idea personally and was mad that my tdoc wouldn't work with us...she knew my back ground already but I can also see the ethical point as well.
anyway
keep us posted...
here it is another weekend...hope you are doing something fun and relaxing.
((((HUGS))))
bizi 
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Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer.....
Happiness is a decision....
150mg of lamictal 2x a day
haldol 5mg 2x a day
1mg of cogentin 2x a day
klonipin , 1mg at night
I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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