When I tried for years to get pregnant, people thought I was the cause with my mindset,self-imposed stress, not adopting (which they believed made you "relax" and get pregnant (urban myth - prospective adoptive parents have same rate of conception as non-adoptive people.) The drugs got me my twins. Now, if I'd just try harder!!! with my MS. They mean well but f@$% em all. Stick your fingers in your ears and smile.