Rhetorical? Me? Never! I have my faults (ask my husband), but insincerity in not among them. I do think you're stronger than you realize. Caring about other people shows enourmous strength of character. Think about how many "norms" out there don't give a hoot about anyone.

I just wish there was a way to make Waves and so many other people on this forum realize how wonderful you are. Heck, I'd come here if I had to pick folks to be stranded with on an island.

Cheers