By Jove, I think Hockey is right!!! Dejibo you are a role model - at this point I don't have many left to cull. Only the ones who stay anyway are left. I'm getting to the age when friends start dying for a wide variety of reasons. Have lost one to breast cancer already. We were good together when we had time together, united in our understanding of what being different and alone and scary to others was like. My move years ago lost me some I thought I'd never lose.