I've said "even though I'm home, I'm not here to supervise." I want the correct things to be used for each job (paper towels, toilet brushes, type of cleaner, lemon oil or furniture spray as needed. Talking about it here reminds me what to tell cleaner. As my neighbor said "No one cleans like you do yourself". I do not supervise but I will be watching. I was that teen girl who cleaned and every one thought me a find, I was a janitor. I've kept house for years. I have to stop being nice, it's mistaken for weakness. (psyching self up).