Sandy,
I agree with Kitty. You're a very good daughter and you gave it your best. If your mom isn't happy there you can't do anything about that. You've done
a lot to try to make it work. You and Jim are super awesome people and you went above and beyond what most people do. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
BTW: I'm home and have my jammies on and it's 6pm. I'm going to eat and go to bed, lol.