Sandy...my dad's mother committed suicide when he was 11, most of her people have died. I've met one child from my grandmother's brother...I need to go talk with her. Daddy doesn't remember a lot about her family and never saw his uncles once she died.
It is very hard even knowing some facts, can't imagine with an adoption.
Heck, I'm still looking for two cousins that were adopted...the court says I have no claim since I'm not the grandparent or sibling...how stupid is that.