Hi Debbie,
First things first: Will you
pleeeeeease
take me with you if I wait on you and cook your meals while you're there?
But, I would think Xanax would help. I took it once for a very stressful meeting several years ago and it worked ok. I even requested a very small RX so I wouldn't be tempted to use it for long. I think I had about 7 pills. Dr W might have some alternative suggestions though for something that will work better.