Erin - I can't agree with you more about staying off the internet but it is hard to when you're newly diagnosed. I was diagnosed last year and spent lots of weekends watching every youtube video, message board and website about MS. After worrying I was going to get every MS symptom known to man I eventually stopped worrying about it (mostly) and went back to just focusing on what I do have.
To be perfectly honest, I don't think that incontinence, although horrible-sounding is the worst symptom on the list.

I'm more worried about having problems walking and so on. Right now, it's just numbness and tingling so I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. However, I hope there's some comfort in the fact that some of us have very minor symptoms (at least for now

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Kathy