i hope you can control your drinking....it would be such a lovely gift to Bobby and showed that you really cared so much about him. His plate seems to be so overflowing and he seems to be such a special human being. My father was an alcoholic so I had a lot of experience coping with drunks. He was self medicating his bipolar II. The last fifteen years of his life he was able to give it up.....ther last six months of his life he had a stroke and became a hero to me. I know you can do it.
Bobby