The avatar or pic I use here in this place is from a game I play. I have played that character a long time. My FB page has my real pic on it, but its about 5 years old. I am 47, and a 1/2. My son was a handful growing up. He was stubborn, bossy, rude, and I had to hold a tight leash on him for years. he hated it then, but appreciates it now. He wanted to drop out of school when he was 14, because he thought everyone hated him. He was always sensitive,and easily offended. poor kid.
I am finding as I grow older, I like me alot more! I used to also worry about pleasing others, or meeting certain standards. Now, I am just me. like it or lump it.