I am wondering what to say to all those widows who will be serving our valentines day lunch today. Each year the town puts on a valentines day lunch to benefit the town manger. it turns out normally that all the old widows/widowers serve. I am in love with my DH, even tho on days I want to kill him, and love to hold hands in public. I am wondering if expressions of my love, will upset those who have lost their loves?