It's okay to vent Donna, we're here. I don't know if this might help but call the local charities and ask if they have something like we have here in FL at your County Resources Helpline I found this on a google search for "Reduced cost respite, Indiana"

[DOC] County Resource Guide 10/10/07File Format: Microsoft Word - View as HTML
Health Care (low cost, sliding scale), Prescription Assistance. Health Dept. ... Southern Indiana Respite 945-6868, Self Help for the Hard Hearing 425-1500 ...
www.fsosi.org/documents/Dubois_resource_list.doc -

And inside it had this inside:

Dubois Resource Guide 10/10/07

Info link United Way 211 Indiana Family Helpline 800-433- 0746

Local Database 800-742-9002


Hope some of this was helpful, if not just know you have us to lean on to talk and vent to anytime....