BF even though you have all this clutter, and stress one thing I hear is going forward and not letting it over take you, as you battle all. The legal, renewals, axiety, you are seeing light at the end of the tunnel to not cave in.

that is amazing. If only you had one person to be a partner in it all to do even the renewals. I don't know your age, if you are 50 are the senior centers in your are? Often there are retired folks that would take the renewals and sit with you there to sort them, chat as you write checks, help address or stamp them.

I think too when the daylight savings comes, the IRS thing is out of the way you can breath a sigh of weight off your chest.

It is terrible to have all this overload, but I hear good things from your attitude. Somewhere, somehow you are coping. Put a sticky up on your fridge, with a smiley face. Put a to do list, and check off each as it is dealt with.
After each check, take a big breath of air and let it all go...then pat yourself on the back.
Your are being sent from afar, and
di