Oh Bobby, it was just from my heart I care and wish there was something that fixes life to be fair, even easier.

I love how you replied to Mari, you are so right, it is not even that we have words to say, we are there for each other unconditionally.

I don't know which man it is that triggers, I know how after 35 years my ex still feels he has to control and hurt me.
I was a Chief of police and put abusers in jail, yet this man still can trigger in me. I am such a mess from his life affecting ploy right now, but coming here to friends, helps.

I do not need the words, there really are no answers, gosh if we had them we could be Dr. Phil and make mega bucks!!!!
But, just signing on and putting a emotiacon, will keep you able to pull from us the love to face whatever is triggering.

Here is where the heart is
Di