my x got his reward letter a little after christmas and we got the direct deposit last friday,,,,it seemed like it took forever! Now the problem is that he owes me back child support,,,,do i take that out of my sons money or do they take that out of his? I Know i have to keep up with what i spend and keep recipts and all,,, But i dont know what i can actually spend that money on....Home repairs. clothes for him. I guess anything that could improve his life i dunno they didnt tell me much of anything on about what i can and cannot do with the money! anyone have any advice?????