Thanks for the advice, I'll check out the link. I do notice things once in a while, but am not sure if I'm just over thinking it sometimes. I've already told him I don't want to get married until at least a year and half of being together. At times I feel he is using the medical insurance reason as justification for rushing things. It would open up more options for me, but I am not going to go into a marriage for a reason such as that. I'm 30, never been married, no kids, and have been very independant my whole life. I just want to make sure I'm not going to ruin something good just because I'm over thinking it. I'm gonna just try to take it slow and watch how things go for now . . . . . Thanks!!!