thanks for the fast replies all.. I wanted to make sure that i was right in assuming that surgery for us wasnt the best thing.. So i will tell him to take the mass. and I will also provide proof that it is in my best of health for him to do so.. I will take care of that right away..im not so worried about the mass and the surgery i am worried about the crps affecting it more. I know that sounds silly. But i have had surgeries before and you always heal eventually. I have had them on my nose and such before which is why this mass is evidently got them worried. But the crps is new and affects us all so differently and so hard and fast its crazy that worries me.. I am only 35 and i want to live my life fully for as long as i can.

ur friend
barbara