Mine is not. He gets mad at the smallest things then says its my falt. HE gets me wondering if I really am crazy and it is my falt? TOnight he was in the freezer pulling stuff out and putting it on the floor, I asked what he was doing and he snapped, "What does it look like I'm doing?" I asked why he talked to me like that and he blew.. I guess he asked if we had any tortillias and I didn't hear him. Then he called me an idiot and I have plumeted into a dispare..I think I need away from him, I just don't know how.