Hi Bob,

I've been thinking a lot about your post.

I was hurt by a drunk driver and have often thought that I could accept all this better if I felt responsible for it. However, after reading about the guilt you feel over your TBI, I realized that reflecting of the circumstances of the injury, whatever they might be, isn't a constructive use of time or energy. We can't undo the past. All we can do is move forward and do the best we can now to aid our recovery.

Cheers