(((((dogodlvr)))))
Well, I think that your husband might be having stress problems, or, tired... sometimes I react like that with my mother and, it is not that I dont love her, it is just my... bad and pathetic character...
I think we dont have excuse, but... what seems to be a rude manner or non supportive attitude, might be only, bad mood... due to, several things...
Dont take it personal. Dont pay attention.
We are here for you.