Hi! I am new and hope I am in the right place.

My research has shown that my wife possibly suffers from BPD, but I cannot be sure. Many of the symptoms seem to apply to most people surviving in modern western societies. However, I am not sure what symptoms to highlight, since she appears to have some, and others not.

How do I deal with this, and how do I get her to at least investigate it? She suffers from an eating disorder, or have in the past (she is very good at keeping things secret). She has always had a poor self-image, even though she is highly intelligent and successful at work. She is a pharmacist.

Any advice or guidance will be appreciated.

Thank you

Jo