My family...hope you are all well tonight.. my brain actually hurts!! Just when we think we have reached our proper and right path to take for my Mom and her colon cancer... another dr. stops us to say now just keep in mind....her demisha..which she has moderate now, still aware..knows us but forgetful... Can I say to each of you to please..take the time to share with your familys now and speak to your parents if they are still in sound mind to talk about situations like these .. for the life of me I want to carry out my Mom's wishes but can not recall her ever saying what her choice would be...before her demenshia... this would help us kids in what is best to do for her now..One hand..operate..remove the tumor..long run save her from great amounts of pain from the tumor obstruction or not operate ..saving her from the recover process or god forbid..losing her during the surgery, which we have been told can happen..Awful but just a few days ago I was so concerned about my upcoming Drexel visit on 3/15 and the lack insurance denial, (which btw..I placed an appeal to be re-considered)... and my RSD..Now that is not even part of my top ten concerns....

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart!!!

Love, kathy