I dont want to sound like everyone else just saying sorry, so i will say, Take care of you. you are always first unless of course u have children. then he need shot in his nether region.lol. anytime you need to talk i am here. He sounds like a fool to let go of someone just cuz there money was gone.. i told hubby, anytime he wanted out,,( no hard feelings) there was the door, he didnt sign on to be 100% reliable for my 100% care. and he said your not dead so im staying. not those exact words. So some day when you least expect it, i hope you find someone like i did. who wil be that way.. just who you need them to be.. again contact a lawyer, im sure he will have to pay some sort of monies to you in the long run. keep your chin up. pm me if you ever need to talk im always available..