I honestly think that if you have the desire to go to college, nothing should stand in your way. I am back to college after a 7 year break, a marriage, 2 kids, and now I have to work full time, but I wanted to go back so badly that nothing was going to stop me. It sounds to me like you have that desire, so find someone that is willing to help. If someone says "you can't" move on to another person! I really don't mean to sound pushy, but I hate it when people tell me I can't do something because of _________. It just gives me more drive to do it! Good luck.