I am going to end this and say I hope faith gets the love, attention, and affection she needs, and deserves. Without ridicule, and without judgment. There are reasons its hard to commit a spouse. in years gone by, a man could simply say "put her in there" and the courts veiwing the wife as his property would comply. With or without just cause.

This has now gone from a woman in pain asking if anyone else gets the same sx when they are in a flare, to a full court press of stress. I am not there. I cannot personally stretch out my hand and hold hers.

I wish the best for Faith, and I pray hard that she gets the help she wants, and needs, but now that her husband is posting in her name, on her account. I no longer feel comfortable responding or adding to this thread. I would hope that he open HIS own account, and respond. Privacy and respect for a spouse are paramount in building and keeping any relationship going.

I dont mind hearing from a spouse as a care giver, we have a few here, but I do have a problem with locking a woman out of her accounts, emails, phones, and computer access, then showing up and posting on her account. I would hope that he opens HIS OWN account if he wishes to add to the conversation. IMHO Faith deserved privacy, and respect and the ability to speak privately to others who may have been suffering the same sx or events, without the responding party having fear of those personal messages being taken away.

Since I can no longer count on who is behind this member name, and whether or not Faith is now actually allowed to see our advice and love, I am going to step out of the circle and simply pray for the best in the very bad situation.

I wish you much love faith. Please find us when you can.