I agree with everyone as well. I am having a hard time as well. I tell my hubby every thing.. But this is taking a toll on him. Lately since I have found this place, i havent told him everything and he seems more relaxed and less stressed. It seems to have helped him as well. I have told him about how it has spread and the medical aspects so he is aware. But the personal things he doesnt need to know.. Because I NEED them. Not him.. And I have been happier since i have found it.. Some stupid questions i asked, but drs wouldnt answer.. you all did.. I think maybe you should stay and just talk to us. just not tell him.. Its like another form of therapy that you dont really pay for.. I feel its better for you to not keep it inside, but to let it out to the people you trust, and you obviously trust us. so pm us and we can talk.. we are all here to help each other. Let us..