I am very happy for you.. It does put alot of stress on the spouse.. I wasnt going to tell my hubby the new symptoms i have been having.. Where i am now currently hurting.. Just going to kick him out of drs rooms, and keep it to myself, to minimize his stress. and he got upset with me.. So i explained that i didnt want him to have any added stress, by dealing with mine, and he says that hes my support system. but my personal feelings that i talk about on here is ok he dont need to know.. or the therapy i dont have to share.. but pain he wants involved it.. which is weird, but ok whatever.lol. so share what he wants to know.. and share with us what you need otherwise.. we understand more than he does. that way you get out what u need and you guys are fine.. i am always available if you need a friend!