I just want to add this:

A HUGE THANK YOU to the moderators of this Forum: Chemar, Jo*mar, Koala77, Kitty, mrsD with an extra huge HUG for Chemar! .... for marking the trigger.

Its because of folks like you (and the founders and members of this forum), we can share pain on our path to healing.

Thanks for allowing us to gather around Colleen.