What we experience in life makes us who we are.
We are a collection of events, decisions, events, knowledge, experiences.

As we travel thru our life, some chapters of it are more pleasent then others. It is tramatic and stressful events that alter our outlook and changes us forever. The event itself is important, but how we handle it also affects us.

"I wonder if GAngel understands that the Colleen she knew is forever changed....
I wonder if GAngel has ever lost a loved one to suicide....I hope not!!" Alffe

Then there are some people that inspire us. Thank you Alffe!

Then there is a time to seek professional help. We may be human, we may try hard and think we are strong, but need the assistance of a person who has studied people....and the things we do.

COLLEEN, if you need professional help (your kids too) please let me know.
I can help you find a place and cover the cost of a professional. To suffer one tramatic event is enough, but to go thru 5 or more is extreme! No one should have to suffer like you have and it is obvious you are in pain. There is no "magic pill or words" but a professional can give you the tools to cope with what you are going thru. Remember I am still here for a reason and because I found a good professional. It is OK to ask for help. I only extend this offer as I am truly concerned for good reason. Will I hear from you?

Ok, now I will get off my little soap box.

What chapter in your life has changed you forever??

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Stressors in life


Death of a Spouse 100
Divorce 73
Marital separation 65
Detention in jail or other institution 63
Death of a close family member 63
Major personal injury or illness 53
Marriage 50
Being fired at work 47
Marital reconciliation 45
Retirement from work 45
Change in health of a family member 44
Pregnancy 40
Sexual difficulties 39
Gaining a new family member 39
Major business readjustment 39