Bobber -
Sadly, I know too many women who have been stuck with spread into their pelvic areas, both inside and out.
Ursula Wesselmann, MD, a highly respected neurologist, is said to run a wonderful specialty clinic, the Johns Hopkins Research Program for the Study of Chronic Pain Syndromes in Women,
http://www.neuro.jhmi.edu/PelvicPain/home.html I'm not aware of anything like that for men.
Mike