I empathize with the "everything is normal" theory!
It is very frustrating to know that something is not right, yet reaching out for help seems to be in vain....

You've come to a GREAT place and you will get very good input from people who truly care.!
Stick around and you'll get good feedback.
There are many forums here that are loaded with info that will help your situation....

Don't lose hope!
Rae