Try to ignor what they are doing. In a church where they gossip,and slander,is a difficult place to be. I've been through these type of things. The church that I went to judged me,my illness,and my medicine. It didn't get any better,and the church ended up splitting,and there where divorces of several of the church members after the split.

Please,please find a new church. I don't think that they will change. This shows that they are not a loving bunch. They are human,and have fallen into temptation of gossup,back biting, and slander.

Please believe me. I have gone to many churches. The church that is balanced with good teaching,and love is a good church to go to. You will know them by their LOVE. Please find another church,before you feel grieved deep down. BF