I just opened up my Bible to 1 Corinthians 13. This is about the love that we are suppose to rise up to. I'm not perfect,and I have a long way to go.
Please don't let these people,and that Lady make you feel bad. It's a awful feeling to get that from the people in church who are suppose to love a accept you. They are showing that they reject you,and they are not accepting you.
I have been personally grieved for years at this type of behavior in some churches. It's not you. It's their lack of love.
If it's that one lady,can you talk to the Pastor. He can talk to that lady,and show her what it says in 1 Corinthians 13. Better yet ,maybe he can teach that chapter for a month.
When I went to church I was looking for Love,and looking to see Jesus in the people in church. I was very disappointed. Please don't give up. The people rejected Jesus,and they crusified Him. He knows what you are going through. BF