Thankful only the car was seriously damaged. I had a major accident a few years ago. Totaled my daughter-in-law's car. She only had two payments left on it too.

She had insisted that I take her car that night neither of us know why. It would have been my car otherwise, hers was a saturn and it really has all those extras in the doors and air bags.

If it wasn't for those, I wouldn't have walked away. Like she said it was only a car. Her first concern is was I all right. Shaken, battered, bruised, but all right.

I am still having some flashbacks when I drive down that road at certain times of day but it is getting alot better. At least I'm not going into panic attacks anymore. I just use the lights whenever I'm on that stretch of road instead of trying to turn into a parking lot in the middle of the road.

I'd post about the abilify but I can't remember why my other can't use it. He either had one of two reactions to it. He either got violent on it or retained alot of water. He was on it about the time they thought he had heart failure due to the pitting adema. I can't remember which medication they finally figured out caused the fluid retention. It wasn't supposed to do it, but seems that he was the one in 1000 or more that it did do that to.

He's either had the got violent reaction to his meds or the retaining fluid side effect. Otherwise they work. I'm thinking it was the fluid retention. I lost the paper I wrote what he can't take on. I can't get his doctor to give a copy of it either. Something to do with the new hippa laws.

Congrats on the birthday and the new outfit. I haven't bought anything new in quite awhile. Maybe if I was thinner . . . like my daughter. (size 1 I hate her sometimes lol, can eat a gallon of icecream and not gain weight, I wear a 20).