Bizi
My sister who has more experience in these things than I do. Says, that
a Rehab center can't take her till she is ready to do Occupational therapy
and physical therapy again.

That they would place her in a nursing home. And We all know that would
not be what my mother wants. She would then not only feel we deserted
her. But also that doing this is not something we want to do.

I am at a hard place in this. I personally can't do much of the lifting.
But my husband doesn't understand this. But he helped a lot over the
weekend. So I am not upset with his getting on to me. Saying I should
be staying up some nights to help too.

Its just not something I can do.

Donna