I am sorry it feels like the world is falling down around you. But my friend keeps telling me.. " one day at a time is the only way we can make it through this.." and she has cancer.. terminal.. It always seems to feel that way to us.. i think that is the norm these days.. BUt a new grandbaby make help give you something to look forward to..They are probably right in a earlier post bout the child support. but i think jail time.. shes just a child herself.. sometimes we just need to try to look past all the negatives and try to look at happy times. which are never shining bright, they are always dull and shaded gray.. but they are they off in the horizon if we look hard enough..things will get better for you.. I hope.. we are all here for you..