Wow, you are dealing with ALOT right now. I certainly hope the 25 yr old goes to jail for statutory rape. No 25 yr old has any darn business with a 14 yr old. I don't care what your daughter says about him. 14 is just a child even if girls don't look like they are. This sorta happened to my sister-in-laws grandaughter, only it turned out the father was her daughters boy friend. She was too afraid to tell her Mom what was going on. Let me tell you that (*)*^^## man went to prison. They kept the baby but they had alot of counseling to go through. It could have totally devastated & ruined this family completely but it hasn't. If anything it pulled them closer.

I have watched the program on MTV about "16 & Pregnant" also. I think all teenagers should have to watch it. It might stop them from participating in risky behaviours a little more.

Sorry about the lawyer situation also. I am so glad that I didn't have to deal with WC. I was working but I didn't have any sort of injury there when RSD hit me. I didn't have any injury at home either. I was told I could go the WC direction because I was working, but I decided not to. I would still be dealing with them also. I have heard people so complain about their WC lawyers not returning calls etc so much.

I wish I could think of some brilliant adivce to really help you out, but there is just nothing in my brain. Hang in there is all I can say.

Debby