Hi Buster and welcome to NT!
You're among friends and people who understand completely what you're saying. I had so many questions and really just needed to hear from people who were in the same boat I was in. It's so reassuring to hear "I know exactly what you mean". And you'll get that here.
Having a spouse or close friend who is supportive is also a wonderful thing. I'm glad your wife is there for you.
I hope to see you around the forum more often.