welcome, i am also new to NT. I have been having systmpoms for about 4 years now and just got diagnosed in 12-09. I don't worry much about my next attack because i swear i have been having an attack for about 3 months now non stop. Or at least that is how it feels. That is awesome that you have a supportive wife. But don't always worry about your next attack just live life to the fullest and if it happens it happens, there is nothing that worrying about it will do.