hi di.

quick reply here...watch for cats getting depressed. you will notice their eyes. that inner corner membrane will come out and they will be kinda looking to the outside. not like cross eyed...the other way.

you might even notice the deep meowing sound..almost like the mating sound. they are "calling" their loved one.

just give them time and as much affection as you can. but don't feel bad about finding them loving homes.