Hi Tracy,

WOW! Looks like your plate is full...First if you lived in the state of Florida, he would be in jail! As a parent you need to make the decision of per-suing this issue, or letting it go. Your daughter is just a child and shame on that man. Shame on your husband for blaming you. I have two daughters one is 21 and one is 16, the 16 year old has RSD. I could not imagine them being pregnant at 14.

You can look at this in two different ways. One go after the #!$$!!$ and send him to jail. Ultimately, your daughter will make the decision of keeping her baby or giving it up for adoption. Listen to her. Don't let her regret any decision that she makes. She is a child, but soon will be forced to become a women. She is going through so much right now. She is in tremendous shock herself. Remember when you were first pregnant, it is a very difficult time. So, remember she is in this too. A very stupid mistake that she made, but here it is, can't turn back. So take a deep breath, put it in a bubble and let it go! You are going to have a new baby. Take care of your daughter, give her a hug, let her know that everything is going to be ok! You are her mommy, you will need to get her through this,

I am a firm believer in crying and screaming. I can not imagine how you feel right now. If you pray then pray. Your grandchild will be born for a reason. Remember, stress brings on more pain, so accept this part of your life and move forward. I hope that you can find peace with this. I will pray for your family.

Much love,
Sandy