Hi Vaguabond- Though it may not be as cozy as home and hearth, the connections you may find through this wonderful welcoming place of sharing is yours and you have already grasped its fabric. Hold on. Enjoy! I am sure you will receive much through the touch of each of us reaching out to you. As for me, I gladly include you among those whom I number in my prayers. May you find all that you have sought, Mark56