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Originally Posted by Alffe
I'm so sorry gardengirl.  If I remember correctly your mom lives with you and your husband is away? If it were me, I'd want to know but I guess the question is....would she know. Do you have other family that can help you with this?  |
I called our dad to tell him (Chicago)..& our older sister (Fl)....The one who died is in RI.......We are so scattered. They all agreed that I should Not tell mom...But HOW do I not? This is so HARD! Mom WILL understand & then Blame herself for not being there for her....she Will die from a broken heart..But, if it were me...I would want to know!