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Originally Posted by hope4thebest
Hi Loretta,
Thank you for always responding to the plea of others who have questions or are new and searching for answers and support Your soft hugs are always a message of caring and genuine concern.
When I read of the wrenching situations that some of our group endure, I always wish there were some physical way I could help or provide relief.
I wish I could take a portion of their burden to lighten the devastating circumstances of their fate. We have to rely on our words and intentions of listening with an open heart and open mind, to offer as help.
I appreciate your sensitivity to anyone and everyone who reaches out.
Sending hugs,
from Hope4thebest  |
Hello Loretta...
I replied but it must have gotten eaten...So here goes take #2...
I am sorry for your sad times lately..To say it is heart wrenching..it truly an understatement..We find how precious our life is and the loved ones in it really are...It is so unique to have a sensitive group on our forum but we all know exacty the pain and intensity of our pain..AND sadly..it ain't going away..That is the crushing part..As our lives change, as we are forced to change with it..our norm of the past is no longer..sadly we take along with these changes .. as far as our loved ones..How hard is that on them..??!!!! Oh my..and it effects our husbands, wives and our children and friends differently .. so as we are trying to figure who we are now..our loved ones are going thru their own turmoil... Oh boy lets be honest in that we have all been and are in the grips of a sad, lost , hopeless day (s)..and if anyone had difficulties working it out..I believe that is prime time for some counciling but (this is sad) if ones life would end it..oh my.. At first I would be devestated but I think I would understand and respect them as they are then in a better place, pain free.. I believe they must have wanted it very badly and almost entitled... and I don't think they took the easy way out..merely a last resort.. I honestly think it crosses peoples minds..it has mine .. but it is our loved ones who (like yourself now) who really suffer having lost a special person in our/their lives...We are not prevy to the answers here on earth but when God peaks thru the clouds and sees us and others who suffer so..I hope we get the pass word to the entry gates.. quickly and free of charge.. and others behind would forgive us for being the eager ones to rise up and be free of our pain..we deserve the release...
I would be lost without you and all my friends here on this forum..I would be very lost in the knowledge of my illness but that does not even compare to the loss I would feel not having all of your love and morale support!!! We are eachothers life lines..
Bless you all and I am very and totally sorry for your pain, Loretta....
Hugz always..gentle ones..
Kathy