I wouldn't ignore her. The problem is there just don't you bring it up. If she does bring it up, then talk about it but no nagging. Just ask her if she is okay and if there is any thing you could do to help make things easier. Try to keep things light. Just let her know that no matter what you love and support her and that you will always be there. That is what I would want to hear from you. If she is already going to therapy the last thing she wants to do is feel like she is in therapy when she talks to you too. I also hope you are talking to someone else about the cutting, cause that bothers me. I hope I am helping you!!

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