Blue
there is a forum for anorexia and other eating disorders on the main Psych Central forum
http://forums.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=10
maybe members there can give you some insight
even tho we are part of PC, you would need to register there as the log in from here wont work there
they also have a support forum related to self injury
I hope your friend will be able to find help to heal from all this