I didn't want you to think you are being 'ignored' !!

You are dealing with quite a serious issue!
This is a wonderful forum and there should be folks coming along who may have good input and suggestions/support to offer you....,

In the meantime, feel free to 'lurk' around, there are so many places here at NT....sometimes I find it very useful to use the 'search' feature at the top of the page to type in key words of interest....that way, you'll find other posts and discussions, which might get the ball rolling for ya.

There are so many caring folks here!

Best wishes
Rae