Sorry to hear about this.

Never tried detrol. We discussed it, but the urologist thought it would make my condition worse. I have both retention and control issues. A strange double whammy.

My doc had me try Flomax but it made me too dizzy. Couldn't drive or even walk straight on it. But his other advice so far has helped a bit. I go to the bathroom every two hours - whether I feel like it or not. And I do those exercises (can't remember the name) to help with the control part.

Hope the med works out for you and doesn't add to you fatigue.