Jeannie.......We've all had out moments. I hope that you are able to forgive yourself.



MLB..........My situation is different from yours in that my marriage was troubled long before y RSD. I always thought we'd be able to work on things when we got the chance.....we worked opposite shifts so we had little actual time together. Almost 6 years ago when my pain issues started, we suddenly had a lot more time together.....Let's just say now we are just biding our time untils the kids graduate. My husband has taken over cooking and shopping.....which would be a good thing, but he refuses to buy anything healthy or fresh fruit and veggies, etc.......so be careful what you ask for, they usually don't do it up to our standards !

My friend's situation sounds like yours. Her pain is so much worse because she is trying to do everything she used to. If she doesn't wash the dishes one day and asks her husband to do it, he'll say, "Well, you washed them yesterday" or "If your friends were coming over, you would have done them."

People can be stupid and not think before they speak